Paul affirms the goodness of aspiring to overseership while preparing to define the office by responsibility rather than prestige.
1 Timothy 3:1-7
1 This is a faithful saying: someone who seeks to be an overseer desires a good work.
Overseers must embody blamelessness, marital fidelity, self-control, hospitality, teaching ability, gentleness, freedom from greed, household leadership, maturity, and public respect.
2 The overseer therefore must be without reproach, the husband of one wife, temperate, sensible, modest, hospitable, good at teaching;
3 not a drinker, not violent, not greedy for money, but gentle, not quarrelsome, not covetous;
4 one who rules his own house well, having children in subjection with all reverence;
5 (but how could someone who doesn’t know how to rule one’s own house take care of God’s assembly?)
6 not a new convert, lest being puffed up he fall into the same condemnation as the devil.
7 Moreover he must have good testimony from those who are outside, to avoid falling into reproach and the snare of the devil.
Deacons must be morally serious, sincere, temperate, financially trustworthy, doctrinally faithful, and tested before service.
1 Timothy 3:8-13
8 Servants, in the same way, must be reverent, not double-tongued, not addicted to much wine, not greedy for money,
9 holding the mystery of the faith in a pure conscience.
10 Let them also first be tested; then let them serve if they are blameless.
Women associated with deacon service and deacons themselves must demonstrate faithful, restrained, and trustworthy household life.
11 Their wives in the same way must be reverent, not slanderers, temperate, and faithful in all things.
12 Let servants be husbands of one wife, ruling their children and their own houses well.
Those who serve well gain excellent standing and bold confidence in Christ.
13 For those who have served well gain for themselves a good standing, and great boldness in the faith which is in Christ Jesus.
Paul reveals the theological weight behind church order: the church belongs to the living God and confesses the mystery of Christ.
1 Timothy 3:14-16
14 These things I write to you, hoping to come to you shortly;
15 but if I wait long, that you may know how men ought to behave themselves in God’s house, which is the assembly of the living God, the pillar and ground of the truth.
16 Without controversy, the mystery of godliness is great: God was revealed in the flesh, justified in the spirit, seen by angels, preached among the nations, believed on in the world, and received up in glory.