Proverbs 25

Wisdom Before Kings: Hidden Matters, Fitting Words, Faithful Messengers, Enemies, Restraint, and Self-Control

The chapter moves from the historical introduction and royal wisdom, to humility and restraint before kings, to disputes and fitting speech, to faithful and unfaithful communication, to patience and neighborly limits, to mercy toward enemies, and finally to warnings about slander, quarrels, compromise, excess, and the necessity of self-control.

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The chapter opens with a historical heading identifying these as additional proverbs of Solomon copied by Hezekiah's men. The following sayings focus on royal wisdom: it is God's glory to conceal a matter and a king's glory to search it out. The heavens, earth, and royal heart are difficult to search. Silver must have dross removed before a vessel is made, and wicked officials must be removed before a throne is established in righteousness. The learner is warned not to exalt himself in the king's presence but to take a lower place and be invited upward rather than be humiliated before nobles.

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God preserves wisdom across generations through faithful transmission and stewardship.

1 These also are proverbs of Solomon, which the men of Hezekiah king of Judah copied out.

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God's glory is seen in hidden wisdom, while human honor is found in diligently seeking understanding.

2 It is the glory of God to conceal a thing, but the glory of kings is to search out a matter.

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The inner counsel of rulers possesses great depth and complexity that is not easily discerned.

3 As the heavens for height, and the earth for depth, so the hearts of kings are unsearchable.

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Purification prepares what is valuable to become useful for honorable purposes.

4 Take away the dross from the silver, and material comes out for the refiner;

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Righteous leadership requires the removal of corrupt influence.

5 Take away the wicked from the king’s presence, and his throne will be established in righteousness.

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Humility preserves honor while self-exaltation leads to humiliation.

6 Don’t exalt yourself in the presence of the king, or claim a place among great men;

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Humility allows honor to be granted rather than seized.

7 for it is better that it be said to you, “Come up here,” than that you should be put lower in the presence of the prince, whom your eyes have seen.

The learner must not rush to court hastily, lest he be shamed when his neighbor exposes him. Disputes should be handled without betraying another's confidence. A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver. Wise rebuke to a listening ear is like a gold earring or fine ornament. A trustworthy messenger refreshes the one who sends him like snow-cooled refreshment during harvest. One who boasts about gifts never given is like clouds and wind without rain.

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Wisdom exercises restraint before entering conflict, recognizing the danger of public shame when facts are incomplete.

8 Don’t be hasty in bringing charges to court. What will you do in the end when your neighbor shames you?

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Wise conflict resolution is personal, direct, and protective of trust.

9 Debate your case with your neighbor, and don’t betray the confidence of another,

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Betraying trust in conflict results in lasting shame.

10 lest one who hears it put you to shame, and your bad reputation never depart.

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Wisely timed speech possesses both beauty and lasting value.

11 A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.

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Faithful correction becomes a treasure when received with humility.

12 As an earring of gold, and an ornament of fine gold, so is a wise reprover to an obedient ear.

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Faithful service refreshes those who rely upon it.

13 As the cold of snow in the time of harvest, so is a faithful messenger to those who send him; for he refreshes the soul of his masters.

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Boastful promises without faithful action reveal emptiness.

14 As clouds and wind without rain, so is he who boasts of gifts deceptively.

Through patience a ruler may be persuaded, and a gentle tongue can break a bone. Honey is good, but too much makes one sick. The learner must not visit a neighbor's house too often, lest he become unwelcome. A false witness against a neighbor is compared to a club, sword, or sharp arrow. Relying on an unfaithful person in trouble is like a broken tooth or lame foot. Singing cheerful songs to a heavy heart is like taking someone's coat in cold weather or pouring vinegar on a wound.

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Patient persistence and gentle words possess great persuasive power.

15 By patience a ruler is persuaded. A soft tongue breaks the bone.

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Wisdom exercises restraint so that blessings do not become burdens.

16 Have you found honey? Eat as much as is sufficient for you, lest you eat too much, and vomit it.

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Wisdom respects relational boundaries so that friendship remains healthy.

17 Let your foot be seldom in your neighbor’s house, lest he be weary of you, and hate you.

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18 A man who gives false testimony against his neighbor is like a club, a sword, or a sharp arrow.

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Trust placed in unreliable people leads to painful disappointment.

19 Confidence in someone unfaithful in time of trouble is like a bad tooth or a lame foot.

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Wisdom responds to suffering with sensitivity rather than careless cheerfulness.

20 As one who takes away a garment in cold weather, or vinegar on soda, so is one who sings songs to a heavy heart.

The learner is commanded to feed a hungry enemy and give water to a thirsty enemy. In doing so, he heaps burning coals on the enemy's head, and the LORD will reward him. Wisdom refuses personal vengeance and practices mercy under the LORD's moral government.

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Wisdom overcomes hostility through unexpected kindness.

21 If your enemy is hungry, give him food to eat. If he is thirsty, give him water to drink;

22 for you will heap coals of fire on his head, and Yahweh will reward you.

A north wind brings rain, and a sly tongue brings angry looks. It is better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife. Good news from a distant land is like cold water to a weary soul. A righteous person who gives way to the wicked is like a muddied spring or polluted well. Too much honey is not good, and it is not honorable to search out matters too deep for one's own glory. The chapter closes with a major image: a person without self-control is like a city whose walls are broken through.

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23 The north wind produces rain; so a backbiting tongue brings an angry face.

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Persistent domestic conflict destroys the peace that makes a home livable.

24 It is better to dwell in the corner of the housetop than to share a house with a contentious woman.

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Faithful good news brings life-giving refreshment to a weary soul.

25 Like cold water to a thirsty soul, so is good news from a far country.

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26 Like a muddied spring and a polluted well, so is a righteous man who gives way before the wicked.

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Wisdom rejects self-glorification and embraces humble restraint.

27 It is not good to eat much honey, nor is it honorable to seek one’s own honor.

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A life without self-control becomes spiritually defenseless.

28 Like a city that is broken down and without walls is a man whose spirit is without restraint.

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